Just For Men
An Unplanned Pregnancy Affects You Too
We want you to know that we are here for you, too, as the man in the relationship. No matter how complicated things seem, we’re ready to listen and answer your questions.
You Should:
- Stay Calm: There’s time to make decisions.
- Listen: Ask about her concerns.
- Support: Your partner needs your support, and most often, she wants to hear from you.
- Engage in Conversation: Talk about how this will affect your relationship.
- Gather Facts: Learn your options together.
- Be Honest: Share your hopes and thoughts. They matter to her more than you know.
- Show up: Come with her to the ultrasound appointment.


You Should Not:
- Bail: I repeat, do not bail! Instead, stay involved in the decision-making process.
- Pressure: Do not pressure her one way or another. Make choices together.
- Forget Your Role: Do not forget who you are as the father. You are fully equipped to provide and protect. Don’t sell yourself short.
Your partner needs your support, no matter your relationship status. Please talk to trusted family and friends, and know that we’re here for you – caring, completely free (no strings attached) and confidential.
First Steps
Visit A New Generation to confirm her pregnancy, find out how far along she is, and explore your options.
What We Offer:
- Confidential support services
- Free lab-quality pregnancy testing
- Limited ultrasounds
- Confidential options education
We’re Here for You Too
If she is pregnant, you are not alone. A New Generation is not only for women! You are just as important to us, and we encourage you to stop by and speak with our Men’s Program Director.
What We Offer:
- Man-to-man mentoring – we’re here to listen and have an honest conversation free of judgement
- Fatherhood support – so that you can feel equipped for this incredible new journey
- Supplies – when you come in for classes, you will earn points to spend on supplies in our baby shop
- Community Referrals to help meet your needs